If You Experience ‘The Witching Hour,’ Perimenopause Might Be to Blame

I never struggled to sleep until I reached my 40s. Back in college, my roommate often had to shake me awake during fire drills because I was such a deep sleeper that even the loud sirens wouldn’t stir me. My need for sleep has always been significant; my baby book notes that I snoozed for eight hours straight my very first night home from the hospital.

During high school, I didn’t share the same late-night cravings as my three teenagers; I would often find myself dozing off on the couch by 8 PM and simply head to bed when I woke up. Even after having kids, who often woke me up for feedings or to comfort them after nightmares, I had no issue falling back asleep.

However, my early forties changed all that. I found myself exhausted throughout the day, yet my mind would race at night. I’ve tried everything—melatonin (which gave me unsettling dreams), sleeping pills, soothing apps, and most recently, a mix of two magnesium supplements and lavender oil, which seems to provide some relief.

This past year, I’ve encountered something new: the witching hour—waking up in the middle of the night and being unable to drift back off, or waking multiple times. Initially, I attributed it to late-night bathroom trips and checking my phone, a habit that had never disrupted my sleep before. To combat this, I kept my phone downstairs, but that didn’t solve the issue.

I even tried to avoid drinking fluids after 6:30 PM, hoping that if I didn’t need to pee at 1:15 AM, I could finally sleep soundly. Unfortunately, I still found myself waking up around the same time without the ability to return to a deep sleep.

Understanding the Impact of Perimenopause

If you’re experiencing this too, you know how exhausting it can be. Daytime fatigue, irritability, and a general sense of unease take over. I reached out to Dr. Alex Thompson, a leading physician specializing in menopause research, who explained that nighttime awakenings can often stem from night sweats caused by hormonal fluctuations. He also highlighted that this phase of life, typically between ages 40 and 50, can significantly impact mental health.

Dr. Thompson noted, “Increased anxiety and depression are common during the perimenopausal years, which can contribute to sleep disturbances.” Many friends in their forties echo this sentiment, feeling restless at night. While hormones are undoubtedly a factor, it’s also a time of transition—our children are growing, and we ponder our future, which can lead to feelings of unease.

I can confidently say that most women I know in their 40s are dealing with some form of sleep disruption. So, what can we do about it? As sleep is crucial for our well-being, finding answers is essential.

Potential Solutions for Better Sleep

Dr. Thompson mentioned ongoing trials exploring non-hormonal medications for hot flashes and cognitive behavioral therapy as potential solutions. “When addressing symptoms, it’s important to consider individual medical histories and preferences,” he added.

We also consulted Dr. Sarah Lee, a wellness expert, who shared practical tips to enhance sleep quality. Firstly, ensure your bedroom is at a comfortable temperature. “A cool room, moisture-wicking pajamas, a supportive mattress, and avoiding screen time before bed can work wonders,” she advised. Additionally, moderating fluid intake in the evening can be beneficial.

Last summer, I invested in bamboo sheets, which have made a significant difference in my comfort. Lowering the thermostat at night has also helped, even if my partner wasn’t thrilled about it. They can always add extra blankets to stay warm while I enjoy a good night’s sleep. Those suffering from sleep disturbances should prioritize their own needs.

Dr. Lee also advised adopting a diet low on the glycemic index, like the Mediterranean diet. “Reducing carbs, processed foods, and sugars can help stabilize glucose and insulin levels, potentially easing hot flashes,” she stated.

While I don’t adhere to a strict diet, I do my best to limit processed sugar and flour. I notice that indulging in sweets or heavy meals disrupts my sleep quality, leaving me uncomfortable and restless—even on chilly nights.

You’re Not Alone

If you find yourself waking up at night and tossing and turning, you’re not alone. Hopefully, these strategies will help you achieve better sleep. If the issues persist, don’t hesitate to consult your gynecologist to explore your options.

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In summary, if you’re waking up during the night and struggling to return to sleep, it may be linked to the hormonal shifts of perimenopause. Understanding these changes and employing some practical strategies can help improve your sleep quality. Consulting with healthcare professionals can provide personalized approaches to managing these challenges.