This morning, I found myself sharing the gym with a version of my younger self. She was vibrant, athletic, and radiated an energy that seemed endless. It’s the type of person we all recognize—the one who embodies youth and fitness, the girl I once was.
As I watched her effortlessly perform her leg lifts, a hint of envy crept into my mind. “That looks easy,” I thought. But the reality is, after years of parenting, my body has changed. I now contend with discomfort from extended sitting and the occasional unexpected flatulence, a consequence of my new normal after having kids. I quickly realized that attempting leg lifts while managing my body’s quirks wasn’t the wisest idea.
However, as those critical thoughts faded, I felt a sense of pride in my journey—not just in terms of physical fitness, but also in my mental resilience. With a smile, I mustered the courage to compliment her form. To my surprise, she returned the gesture by saying, “You’re really fit for your age.” My laughter erupted, perhaps a bit too loudly, as the humor of the moment struck me. I may not be the same as I once was, but I embraced the changes.
That evening, I reflected on our encounter and her comment about being fit for my age. It made me appreciate how far I’ve progressed in life and how comfortable I’ve become with who I am.
Letting Go of Insecurities
One of the most liberating aspects of reaching this stage in life is letting go of previously held insecurities. For instance:
- I enjoy indulging in buttercream frosting straight from the bowl.
- I can laugh at my own mistakes, like when my husband reminded me about the plugged-in blender I was about to use.
- I cherish the familiarity of our local Taco Time drive-thru staff.
- I no longer stress over my children’s screen time.
- I prioritize playtime over homework, like letting them stomp on ant hills.
- I’ve relaxed my standards on organic food.
- I even tossed my daughter’s standardized test scores, realizing they didn’t define her potential.
- My kids are starting to see the fun side of me.
- Most importantly, I’ve learned to embrace my individuality without comparing our lives to others.
This is what life looks like in your 40s, and I must say, I find it quite enjoyable.
Resources for Your Journey
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In summary, embracing the journey of motherhood and personal growth allows for a deeper appreciation of life. The liberation that comes with age brings joy and acceptance, making every moment worthwhile.
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