After fifteen years of marriage and eighteen years together, my partner and I made the tough choice to part ways. Our relationship was strong for a long time. We welcomed three wonderful kids into the world and navigated life without much chaos or drama. Arguments were rare. However, as time went on, we became increasingly frustrated with each other, and the distance between us grew. Before things escalated, we decided to end it amicably.
This decision wasn’t made overnight; it took nearly six years of trying to rekindle the flame. We wanted to part ways while we still had a foundation of friendship, respect, and kindness. This approach has significantly aided our co-parenting experience, and we feel fortunate to maintain this positive relationship.
That said, letting go can be a challenge. It’s often easier to walk away from someone when unresolved issues or blame are clear. But that wasn’t our situation. We both made mistakes, but ultimately, we simply grew apart. We still cared for each other, yet the spark was gone. Love can fade without a dramatic ending or a bitter fallout.
When I listened to Kacey Musgraves’ song, “Star-Crossed,” it resonated deeply with me; it felt like it was written for my experience. While she wrote it for her own journey, the connection felt personal. The chorus particularly struck a chord:
What have we done?
Did we fly too high just to get burned by the sun?
No one’s to blame
‘Cause we called all the angels to save us
Called them by name
But I guess they got lost
Star-crossed
Musgraves shared with Elle that the song is about “two people who love each other so much, but they cannot make it work in the physical realm to be together, because it’s just not written in the stars for them.”
This concept might be unfamiliar to many, as society often teaches us to endure difficult relationships, sacrificing our well-being until love turns to resentment. However, as Musgraves sings, “No one’s to blame.”
Her entire album, filled with fifteen tracks that detail her experience through her divorce from ex-husband, Jake Rivers, is incredibly moving. Whether you’re facing heartbreak, navigating a divorce, or enjoying a happy chapter in life, her voice evokes a whirlwind of emotions that are both compelling and heartfelt.
Her performance of “Star-Crossed” at the VMAs this year was nothing short of stunning—I was amazed. If you haven’t seen it yet, stop everything and watch; it’s a song that lingers long after you hear it.
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Summary:
Kacey Musgraves’ song “Star-Crossed” eloquently captures the bittersweet experience of love that fades without animosity. The track resonates deeply with anyone navigating the complexities of divorce. Musgraves’ entire album showcases her journey and provides solace for listeners experiencing similar heartache.
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