After fifteen years of marriage and eighteen years as a couple, my ex-husband and I chose to part ways. Our relationship thrived for a long time; we shared three wonderful kids and avoided much chaos or conflict. However, as time went on, we found ourselves increasingly irritable with each other, and realizing the growing distance between us prompted us to end things before they worsened.
This wasn’t a snap decision; we spent around six years trying to rekindle our love and find some spark again. Ultimately, we decided to part on good terms, maintaining our friendship, respect, and compassion for one another. This foundation greatly enhances our co-parenting experience, and we recognize how fortunate we are to have such a relationship.
Yet, it can also complicate the process of moving on. It’s often easier to walk away from someone when there are clear reasons for the split—like betrayal or blame. In our case, we simply grew apart while still caring for each other. There wasn’t a dramatic fallout; sometimes love just fades without a grand exit or bitter confrontation.
Listening to Kacey Musgraves’ song “Star Crossed” felt like she was articulating my experience; even if she wrote it for herself, it resonated deeply with me. The chorus struck a chord:
What have we done?
Did we fly too high just to get burned by the sun?
No one’s to blame
‘Cause we called all the angels to save us
Called them by name
But I guess they got lost
Star-crossed
Musgraves shared with Elle that the song explores two people who love one another but can’t seem to make their relationship work. This concept might be challenging for some to grasp—ending a relationship simply because it feels wrong or because you sense your time together has come to an end. Society often encourages us to endure, sacrificing our well-being until love turns to resentment.
As Musgraves emphasizes, “No one’s to blame.” Her entire album, which reflects her journey through her divorce from her ex-husband, is incredibly moving. Whether you’re facing heartbreak, navigating a divorce, or enjoying a stable relationship, her music evokes a multitude of emotions. It’s heartfelt and genuine.
Her stunning performance of “Star Crossed” at the VMAs was unforgettable—if you missed it, take a moment to watch. This song will linger in your thoughts long after hearing it.
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In summary, Kacey Musgraves’ “Star Crossed” beautifully captures the complexities of love and loss, making it a must-listen for anyone navigating similar experiences. Her heartfelt lyrics and emotional delivery resonate deeply, reminding us that sometimes, relationships end not due to blame, but simply because they’re not meant to last.
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