Updated: May 12, 2015
Originally Published: April 15, 2010
“There was a bad man in our town, but the police caught him.”
These words from my daughter two years after a tragic event caught me off guard. At the age of nearly three, she had experienced the Boston Marathon Bombing, and I never anticipated that she would retain such a vivid memory of that beautiful spring day when we were confined indoors. It was a day when I had to explain to her that there are individuals capable of causing harm, leading us to rely on those sworn to protect us.
As parents, our instinct is to shield our children from pain and fear, yet sometimes that instinct is tested. We strive to make sense of the senseless, comfort the hurt, and create a safe haven for our little ones amidst a world that can seem chaotic.
On April 15, 2013, terror struck, taking the lives of three innocent people and throwing our community into turmoil while simultaneously forging deeper connections among us. In the days that followed the bombing and up until the capture of the perpetrator, we remained vigilant, staying indoors, praying, and waiting for reassurance.
Children, seemingly unaffected, hold onto these memories. This experience has illuminated a crucial lesson: while we cannot always shield them from the realities of life, we can guide them in understanding and coping with fear. During that spring day when we were urged to stay inside, my daughter and I displayed a large sign thanking the first responders out our window. We discussed how the brave individuals from our local police and fire departments were out there, working diligently to ensure our safety. We read more stories together and embraced tightly, becoming a bit more cautious of crowds and hesitant to let our children explore freely.
We must not allow fear to dictate our lives, for in doing so, we risk stripping away the innocence we cherish for our children. I am proud to say that we, as a community, stood strong against the fear. We united and became Boston Strong, a mantra that continues to resonate with us today.
Let us always remember the poignant words of the youngest victim of the bombing, Martin, who urged us: “No more hurting people. Peace.” In remembrance of the lives lost, including those of Mia Thompson, Alex Rivera, and others, we strive to maintain this spirit of resilience.
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In summary, while we cannot shield our children from every fear or threat, we can equip them with the tools to understand and cope with life’s challenges. The importance of community, resilience, and teaching our children about peace remains paramount.
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