Lately, my life has felt overwhelmingly traumatic. Earlier this year, I came out to my partner, and just a few months later, I experienced the sudden loss of my mother. Since then, I’ve also lost three additional family members—two uncles to cancer and an aunt whose cause of death remains a mystery. I can’t pretend that I’m okay; I’m not. It’s been a lot to bear. I’m fighting to maintain clarity and stability, to keep my marriage (more or less) intact, and to simply cope. My goal isn’t to thrive; I just want to feel okay. Why? Because I’m navigating through situational depression, and the circumstances surrounding me are draining. Depression is relentless.
Understanding Situational Depression
Situational depression is defined as a short-term form of depression triggered by a significant life event or change, according to Medical News Today. This can include experiences such as divorce, job loss, or the death of a loved one. Other life transitions can also lead to this form of “adjustment disorder.”
“Situational depression is a depressive state that arises from challenging events in life, like losing a job or a loved one,” explains Dr. Alex Morgan, a psychologist in New York, in a conversation with Healthline. “While the term provides a helpful framework for understanding the sadness that many people feel, it also runs the risk of downplaying the seriousness of their condition, as they might view it merely as a reaction to circumstances.” In short, situational depression can be quite intense, heavy, and, yes, severe.
How Does It Differ from Clinical Depression?
You might wonder how situational depression differs from clinical depression—a valid question since the symptoms can overlap. Situational depression can lead to feelings of lethargy and helplessness. It can amplify feelings of hopelessness, and changes in appetite are common. Personally, I haven’t had a full meal in months; my plate is often filled with unfinished food. Sleep has become my constant companion, and the exhaustion I feel is overwhelming. I have wrestled with suicidal thoughts more than I can count. Yet, unlike clinical depression, situational depression can have its ups and downs. There are moments of joy, brief glimpses of light amidst the darkness, and many who experience situational depression remain functional enough to attend work and family events.
For a formal diagnosis of clinical depression, specific criteria must be met, as outlined in the DSM. “A person must exhibit five or more symptoms from a designated list over a two-week period, occurring most days,” according to Medical News Today. Even those with clinical depression can experience flare-ups triggered by specific circumstances. Dr. Jamie Trent, a clinical psychologist, notes that “individuals with clinical depression may encounter overwhelming situations that intensify their depressive symptoms.” This means that someone like me, who has clinical depression, can also experience episodes of situational depression triggered by external events. Life continues to feel heavy. The pain is intense, and even basic tasks, such as showering, have become overwhelming chores.
The Silver Lining
The silver lining is that situational depression tends to be temporary. “Symptoms often lessen as the triggering situation stabilizes,” Dr. Trent adds. Treatment options include therapy and lifestyle modifications. “In most cases, situational depression is short-lived,” states Medical News Today. Mild instances may resolve without active intervention, but strategies such as regular exercise, maintaining a balanced diet, sticking to a sleep schedule, reaching out to loved ones, joining support groups, or engaging in hobbies can be helpful. Therapy is also a viable option.
For those facing severe situational depression, medication such as antidepressants or anti-anxiety drugs may be prescribed, according to Medical News Today. If you or someone you know is in need of support, please reach out to professional resources available online or through trusted contacts.
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In summary, while my depression may be classified as situational, it is undeniably severe and challenging to manage. Understanding the nuances of this condition can foster compassion for oneself and others who may be experiencing similar struggles.

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