In the United States, the conversation around paid family leave feels surreal. It’s a basic necessity, especially for parents—women in particular—yet we find ourselves debating its very existence. President Biden’s Build Back Better framework notably lacks provisions for paid family and medical leave, with recent negotiations seeing the initial twelve weeks cut down to four, and ultimately to zero. This drastic reduction is primarily due to the opposition from Senator Chris Taylor of West Virginia, whose support is crucial for the bill’s passage.
Let’s unpack the implications of this situation. The Bipartisan Policy Center reports that “79 percent of workers lack access to a defined paid parental or family caregiving leave benefit, and 60 percent are without medical leave.” Without paid family leave, countless individuals face tough choices as they juggle work, family, and health.
Paid family and medical leave is not a privilege; it is a human right. Parents should not have to choose between nurturing their newborns and maintaining their jobs. Shockingly, one in four mothers in the U.S. returns to work just ten days after giving birth, according to PL+US. This pressure arises from families’ financial constraints, especially with the arrival of a new child. I returned to work six weeks after my second child was born, forced to do so due to a lack of unpaid leave. Despite being a government employee and covered by the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA), complications during pregnancy meant I had to go on leave a few weeks early. It was either return to work or risk losing my job—and with it, my future income.
As is often the case, women of color and minorities are disproportionately impacted by these policies. Many are the primary earners in their families and may not qualify for FMLA due to their job types or hours worked, or they may be reluctant to take time off for fear of losing their jobs.
Imagine a world where parents can fully embrace their new roles without the anxiety of how to provide for their families. Paid family leave allows parents to bond, establish breastfeeding, and settle into caregiving before returning to work. This policy should also be inclusive of all family situations, including adoptions, non-birthing parents, and new foster arrangements.
Moreover, the need for paid leave extends beyond welcoming a new family member. Various medical emergencies necessitate time off, whether for personal health issues or caring for loved ones.
Let me share a personal story. When my middle child was only five months old, he contracted croup, leading to a week-long hospital stay. As a breastfeeding mother, this meant I also needed to stay in the hospital. When I called in to explain my absence, colleagues questioned my decision to prioritize my infant’s care over my job, even suggesting I should leave him with strangers. It was beyond frustrating.
How is it possible that in one of the wealthiest and most developed nations, these issues persist? We deserve better. While I agree with Congress that this needs to be “done right,” the ongoing struggle to implement paid family leave feels like a slap in the face to hardworking families.
Get it together, America.
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Summary: Paid family leave is essential for parents, particularly women, yet is still not recognized as a right in the U.S. With alarming statistics about workers lacking access to this crucial benefit, the need for change is urgent. Families should not have to choose between work and caring for their newborns or dealing with medical emergencies. It’s time for America to prioritize the well-being of its citizens.
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