Thanksgiving used to hold a special place in my heart. I fondly remember gathering at my relatives’ home in Chicago, enjoying an elaborate meal with countless slices of pie, followed by lively rounds of Bingo for exciting prizes. Those were truly delightful times.
However, as years have passed, that journey has faded. I’ve grown increasingly disillusioned by Thanksgiving as a celebration that glosses over the darker aspects of history. The more I learn about the past, the less appealing the traditional narratives of pilgrims and Native Americans become. I also find the emphasis on forced gratitude a bit cheesy, reminiscent of a Hallmark movie. With this in mind, I’m eager to explore new traditions. Perhaps you feel the same way?
If you’re also seeking alternatives, here are some non-traditional Thanksgiving ideas. Instead of sticking to a holiday that may not resonate with you or abandoning the celebration altogether, why not embrace something fresh, enjoyable, and, importantly, inclusive?
Host a Friendsgiving
Friendsgiving has become increasingly popular, especially for those who may not live close to family or prefer not to share a meal with relatives who hold unpleasant views. Why not invite your closest friends over for your own Thanksgiving celebration? You can handle all the cooking, or ask each guest to bring their favorite dish. After dinner, consider playing games or even adopting a fun theme that strays from the traditional Thanksgiving vibe. If you decide to host, remember to take Covid precautions, like gathering outdoors if possible. And don’t forget to bring back that classic Bingo game—everyone loves a little friendly competition!
Volunteer Together
The holiday season is an excellent time to give back. Numerous volunteer opportunities abound, such as serving meals to those in need or organizing local charity efforts. As a family, choose a cause that everyone feels passionate about. Just remember to keep the focus on helping rather than seeking recognition on social media. Afterward, why not celebrate with pizza? Who doesn’t love a good slice?
Explore Locally
Traveling far might not be feasible or safe at the moment. Instead, consider planning a local vacation or day trip. What attractions have you and your family not yet explored? Kids often find the idea of staying in a hotel thrilling, and just a night away can feel like an adventure. Make sure to check for any necessary reservations, especially at places like local zoos that are managing visitor capacity. When in doubt, seek out free outdoor activities for a budget-friendly option.
Get Outside
Spending time outdoors is a fantastic way to bond with loved ones. From hiking to playing sports, there are countless ways to enjoy the fresh air. Consider renting bikes or setting up a beanbag toss game in your backyard. Enjoy a meal outside, perhaps around a fire pit with some s’mores for dessert. As winter approaches, let’s take advantage of the sunshine while we can!
Prepare for December Holidays
Thanksgiving can be a perfect launchpad for the upcoming December holidays. If Thanksgiving isn’t your family’s favorite, feel free to use the day to start decorating for Christmas, baking cookies, or wrapping gifts. Just ensure that everyone is comfortable with their roles—no one should feel forced into participation. For instance, my husband prefers to only set up the tree while my oldest and I take on the baking duties.
Create a Non-Traditional Menu
Sometimes the classic Thanksgiving dishes just don’t cut it. This year, my family decided to try out new recipes like a maple-glazed turkey and vegan gravy. We even made sweet potato pie instead of the traditional pumpkin. Feel free to completely switch things up—one year, we opted for a taco bar, and it was a hit! And if you’re not in the mood for a heavy meal, a Thanksgiving brunch could be a refreshing alternative.
Stay In and Relax
If the thought of the holidays feels overwhelming, consider a low-key day at home. Instead of adhering to obligatory traditions that no one enjoys, think about ordering pizza, wearing pajamas, and binge-watching movies together. It’s perfectly acceptable to prioritize relaxation and comfort during this busy season.
There are countless ways to celebrate Thanksgiving in a way that feels right for your family, transforming it into a new tradition. Whether you decide to venture out for an adventure, gather with friends, or simply stay in and enjoy each other’s company, letting go of guilt surrounding traditional expectations can lead to a more fulfilling holiday.
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Summary
: This year, consider stepping away from traditional Thanksgiving celebrations and exploring new, meaningful alternatives. From hosting a Friendsgiving to volunteering, taking a local trip, or simply staying in and relaxing, there are countless ways to make this holiday special for your family. Embrace the opportunity to create lasting memories with a fresh perspective!
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