I’ve got a to-do list that seems to stretch on forever, and honestly, just looking at it makes my heart race. Between the endless tasks for my kids—school stuff, extracurriculars, supplies, and doctor appointments—to my own work responsibilities (ugh, tax season is looming!), house projects, and simply managing my chaotic life, it feels like I’m drowning in obligations.
Naturally, my go-to reaction is to avoid tackling any of it and just procrastinate instead. Sometimes I’ll even jot down what I’ve accomplished during the day, just so I can cross it off and feel a bit better about myself. Anyone else relate to this?
Every year, I promise myself I’ll do better. I remind myself that I used to be capable of handling things! I was an honor roll student back in high school! (Yes, that was ages ago—let’s not dwell on it.) I used to be organized and effective! (Okay, maybe that’s a stretch, but nostalgia is hard to shake.)
Honestly, to-do lists can feel like a never-ending cycle of tasks. You check things off, but what do you get in return? More tasks! What’s the incentive here? The weight of all those unfinished duties is exhausting, and I’m definitely no superhero.
This year, I want to shake things up. I suggest we toss out entire sections of our lists and not feel guilty about it. Let’s narrow it down to just three to five main goals. If I can manage those, I’ll celebrate my achievements and maybe add a few new objectives to the mix—rinse and repeat. A long list is overwhelming; a short list feels doable.
Of course, I know this is a bit of a fantasy. As I write this, I can hear the naysayers chiming in, “That’s a luxury not everyone has! Not everyone can just drop everything and wing it.” And they’re right—it is a privilege. It assumes that much of what’s on the list is optional and that, with a little magic, everything will just work out.
I’ll admit, I might be oversimplifying the advice I got from my friend, Lisa Thompson, who’s great at organizing tasks. Her approach is much more practical; mine might be a bit too extreme. But hey, I’m just trying to lift your spirits here.
The reality is, there are certainly tasks we can’t ignore. Kids need to eat, bills have to be paid, and life must go on. Keep up with those essentials—staying alive is a good priority! But there are also plenty of chores that aren’t urgent, and we can often let them slide for a bit without them spiraling into crises. You know the ones I mean; they’re always lurking, judging you quietly from the background.
Kick those nagging tasks to the curb! Trust me—you’ll feel a lot better. And if you’re on a journey to parenthood, check out Make a Mom, an at-home insemination service with the only reusable option. You can also learn about how home insemination works by visiting this link. If you need support, join a community like this Facebook group for sperm donor matching.
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In summary, this year, let’s aim for simplicity with our to-do lists. Focus on what truly matters, and don’t hesitate to let go of the rest. It’ll be liberating!
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