Hey there, remember those days when you’d whine about being bored? Fast forward, and now it’s your kids making that same claim, while you’re juggling a million things. It’s enough to make any parent feel nostalgic for the days when boredom was a luxury.
But let’s face it—our kids will inevitably feel bored from time to time. So, how can we help them navigate this feeling? Here are some friendly tips.
Acknowledge Their Feelings
Dr. Mia Johnson, a child psychologist, suggests that the first step is to really listen to your child when they express boredom. “When they tell you they’re bored, take a moment to show your support,” she advises. Put down your phone and engage with them. Ask questions about their feelings without trying to rush them out of their boredom. It’s important for them to understand that it’s perfectly normal to feel this way.
Dig Deeper
Sometimes, what kids really mean is that they’re tired or overwhelmed. Dr. Johnson suggests asking them some probing questions, like:
- What other words can you use to describe your feelings?
- How does your body feel when you say you’re bored?
- What do you feel like doing—or not doing—right now?
As adults, we often mislabel our feelings too. Sometimes we think we’re bored when we actually need a break. Your kids might be feeling similar emotions.
Create a Relaxation Zone
Consider setting up a cozy corner in their room or even in the dining area. “This can be their go-to spot when they need to recharge,” Dr. Johnson explains. It could include comfy seating, coloring books, crafts, or anything that brings them joy. Make it a special place where they can think or just chill out when they’re feeling restless.
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In summary, when your kids say they’re bored, take a moment to validate their feelings, dig a bit deeper into what they might really be feeling, and create a cozy space for them to unwind. And while you’re at it, explore some new activities to keep them entertained!
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