Breastfeeding can be a beautiful journey, but it often comes with unsolicited opinions and comments that can be less than supportive. Here are twelve things you really shouldn’t say to a breastfeeding mom—because let’s face it, some things are better left unsaid!
- “You always wanted bigger breasts.”
Seriously, comments about body parts are never helpful. Remember, she’s breastfeeding, not flaunting! - “You’re like a human cow!”
That’s a comparison no one wants to hear. - “Oh, my baby latched right away.”
That’s awesome for you! But every breastfeeding journey is unique, and many moms face challenges. - “Is that wine? Aren’t you still breastfeeding?”
Yes, and that’s my choice! Nursing moms can have a drink if advised by their doctor, so let’s keep it to ourselves. - “I didn’t breastfeed my kids and they turned out fine.”
Great! But the bottom line is, fed is best. No judgment here, please. - “Your breasts will never be the same.”
Thanks for that uplifting note! - “There’s a bathroom over there if you’d be more comfortable.”
She was comfortable until you suggested sitting on a toilet to feed her baby. Just… no. - “Have you ever tasted your own milk?” followed by, “GROSS!”
Moms deal with a lot of messy things; this isn’t one of them! - “You’re still nursing?”
Every mom knows when it’s time to wean, so let her make that decision. - “Would you mind covering up?”
If that made her feel better, she’d do it! Everyone has different comfort levels. - “Whoa! That’s a lot to carry for a day at work.”
Yes, it’s not easy to lug around pumping gear. Thanks for the reminder, though! - “The freezer just died.”
Nooo! Not the milk stash!
Sound Familiar?
Breastfeeding is a personal journey filled with ups and downs. If you’re interested in more insights, check out this post on Modern Family Blog.
In summary, it’s important to support breastfeeding moms with kindness and understanding. Comments that belittle or minimize their experience can be hurtful, and every mom deserves respect for the choices they make.
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