As a mother, I acknowledge my imperfections. I don’t strive for perfection; instead, I embrace the reality that I make mistakes. I experience moments of frustration, raise my voice, and sometimes struggle to find the balance in giving my children choices—believing in fairness for all. I often allow them to indulge in too many sweets, spend excessive time in front of screens, and engage in video games far longer than I’d like. During the summer months, I find it challenging to maintain a consistent bathing schedule for my children. Laundry piles up, and there are times when my family runs out of clean socks before I manage to do the wash. Meal planning can be hit or miss, and I don’t enforce daily reading as much as I should. Board games and imaginative play? Not my forte, but I do engage in other activities with them.
However, after 13 years of motherhood, I find that I’ve improved in remaining calm, taking deep breaths, and modeling appropriate behavior for my kids. While I don’t believe in strict authoritarian parenting, I’ve learned that offering too many choices can lead to confusion, particularly for my clever son. I allow treats, screen time, and gaming, but we’ve established rules that govern these activities, which I feel confident about.
Bathtime may be sporadic, yet I ensure my children don’t step outside looking unkempt, and they do brush their teeth daily. Laundry might occasionally pile up, but they generally have what they need, and it doesn’t take long to run a load. Cooking isn’t my passion, yet I don’t let my family go hungry, regardless of our meal plan. I encourage my kids to read, but I avoid making it a requirement; I want them to love it, not dread it.
I admit I’m not fond of board games or pretend play, but I bond with them in other ways. Due to my poor eyesight, I can’t always drive them to their desired activities, which sometimes leaves them disappointed. But I know they’ll navigate these disappointments just fine.
In essence, while I may not be the ideal mother, I am certainly ENOUGH. I prioritize my children’s needs above my own, acknowledging my mistakes and learning from them—an important lesson for them to witness. I genuinely enjoy my kids; they mean the world to me. I shower them with affection, stay involved in their education, communicate with their instructors, and assist with homework. I ensure they get adequate sleep, schedule regular check-ups, and provide comfort when they’re under the weather. I laugh with them and engage in meaningful conversations. I know them better than anyone else, and I express my love for them daily.
I am their mom, and while I may not be perfect, I am perfect ENOUGH.
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In summary, the journey of motherhood is filled with ups and downs. Embracing imperfection allows us to focus on what truly matters—our love and commitment to our children, making every moment count.
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