Updated: August 21, 2015
Originally Published: November 8, 2013
In recent times, it has become increasingly clear that many of us are growing weary of scrutinizing one another’s choices as mothers. It’s high time we extend a hand to the woman beside us and declare, “Enough is enough.”
I have no interest in whether your child shares your bed into adulthood, or if they’ve never slept beside you for even a moment. I don’t care if your child consumes baby formula, kombucha, or even Spam, or if you choose to nurse them traditionally. That’s your life, not mine, so why would I pass judgment?
Let us unite our voices as mothers and advocate for solidarity, stating, “We are all women and mothers, doing our absolute best.”
I invite you to confide in me when motherhood leaves you feeling lost or overwhelmed. I’ll be there to offer a glass of wine, if that’s your preference, and listen without judgment. My goal isn’t to fix your problems but to empathize with you as someone who has faced similar struggles.
While I may believe my child is the most extraordinary being ever to exist, I also recognize that they can be just as trying to you as your little one is to me. No hard feelings.
I will not engage in mental competitions or comparisons between our children. Each child develops at their own pace, independent of our expectations.
When I see you shout in frustration at your child in the grocery store, I will understand that you have your reasons, just as I had mine when I lost my cool in a hospital room. I will remember this shared experience and offer you a supportive nod.
Your parenting choices are yours alone, and I won’t judge them. I can’t possibly know your child like you do, and I choose to respect that. I will keep my focus on my own parenting journey, for any judgment I may make is a reflection of my own insecurities.
I will offer support to mothers in need because we all require assistance at some point. Whether you need a listening ear, a meal, a grocery run, or just a good laugh, I’ll be there to help in any way I can.
As women and mothers, we share a unique understanding of the overwhelming love we feel for our children, which can sometimes lead us to feel a bit unhinged. Our kids may not comprehend this, and our partners may not always grasp it either. Thus, it is paramount that we stand together in our motherhood journey.
Let’s eliminate the divisive debates—whether it’s working moms versus stay-at-home moms, breastfeeding versus bottle-feeding, or any other parenting choices. These arguments serve no purpose and only serve to divide us.
Instead, let’s embrace the idea that we are raising imperfect human beings, not fragile entities requiring flawless parenting. Our children will thrive despite our missteps. If we can foster understanding among ourselves, perhaps we can impart that vital lesson to them.
And then, we can return the internet to its intended purpose—sharing pictures of adorable cats and poking fun at celebrities to boost our spirits.
Are you with me?
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Summary:
Motherhood can often feel isolating, but it’s essential to come together and support one another, regardless of differing parenting choices. By fostering understanding and empathy among mothers, we can navigate the challenges of parenting without judgment. Let’s focus on unity and provide the support we all need in our journeys.
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