Friendships can be fleeting; some may last only a season or two. We have those pals from childhood, the ones we acted goofy with in college, those who supported us through the chaos of new motherhood, and the coworkers we share lunch gossip with. There are neighbors, acquaintances, and friends of friends. But then there’s you. And there’s me. Together, we’ve created something special.
It feels like we’ve been friends forever, and I’m grateful that we’re still here for one another. As other relationships have faded away for various reasons, ours has remained steadfast. Life may have grown busier and more complex, and maintaining friendships more challenging than when we could just pop over to chat, but you remain my person. You always have, and you always will.
We are BFFs because I can let my guard down around you. You never judge me for the ants in my kitchen or the lingering scent of, well, life in my bathroom. You overlook the dust bunnies and streaky windows, just as I do at your place. Instead, we notice the new throw pillows from Target or the framed photo of us on your mantel.
Our friendship lets us be awkward together without feeling awkward. We both despise small talk and prefer texting over phone calls. We laugh uncontrollably when someone trips, and we can spend time in the same room, engaging in our own worlds, feeling completely comfortable. We genuinely enjoy each other’s company.
We’re BFFs because we have shared vulnerabilities and seen each other at our most exposed. I’ve felt your post-surgery body, and you’ve seen me in less-than-flattering moments. We’ve swapped outfits, given each other brutally honest feedback on swimwear, and held each other’s hair back during less glamorous times. We’ve shared bras, makeup, and a myriad of experiences.
Even when we disagree or unintentionally hurt each other, we forgive swiftly. We know each other’s hearts are good and true. Though our parenting approaches differ—be it on breastfeeding, sleep strategies, or cutting grapes—we fundamentally agree on the essence of raising kids. We value independence for our children and, let’s be honest, we enjoy a little lazy parenting too. When our families gather, we make sure to find time to gossip without the kids around.
We often rely on humor and a sprinkle of sarcasm to navigate life’s challenges. You with your witty remarks, and me with my choice of expressive language. We both believe in the goodness of people and tend to give others the benefit of the doubt.
We’ve supported one another through breakups, moves, and the serious illnesses of loved ones, always ready with a shoulder to lean on. We’ve shared tears and laughter—sometimes even causing little accidents in the process. Our entertainment tastes might diverge, but we bond over pop culture, sharing laughs over shows like Parks and Recreation and Schitt’s Creek. We agree on the eye-roll-worthy aspects of certain novels, creating our own little inside jokes.
Our trust runs deep; we confide our secrets and celebrate each other’s milestones. We’ve navigated life’s ups and downs together, whether that meant sneaking in drinks at the hospital or sharing midnight phone calls. We show up for each other, time and again.
Reflecting on what keeps a friendship strong, I believe it comes down to respect, familiarity, and a sprinkle of magic. There was a reason we connected initially, and that bond has withstood the test of time, creating an intricate weave of shared experiences.
Even if we go days or weeks without seeing each other, our reunions feel like coming home. Despite the messiness inherent in any relationship, we’ve stayed connected because we genuinely care for each other. And, let’s face it, we know too many secrets to let go!
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In summary, our friendship is a unique tapestry woven from shared moments, mutual understanding, and unwavering support. We’ve created a bond that not only survives but thrives amidst life’s ups and downs.
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