Ah, summer break has finally arrived, and mothers nationwide are eagerly anticipating a well-deserved escape from their daily household responsibilities. We’re all excitedly planning a relaxing family getaway, daydreaming about long naps, housekeeping, room service, and laundry being someone else’s concern for a change. The idea of not stepping foot in a grocery store or laundry room for a week sounds blissful. Imagine your children being entertained at resort-sponsored day camps, leaving you to bask in peace while sipping a frozen drink by the pool.
However, if this summer’s plans resemble your typical routine—just with a nicer backdrop—you’re not alone, and I totally get it. After nearly 20 years of experiencing this, I can attest: this is not a vacation. I refer to it as “mountain-view mothering.” Instead of frolicking through picturesque landscapes, you’ll find me at the local store picking up fabric softener, red Solo cups, and bug spray. Didn’t catch me? No problem; I’ll be back tomorrow for more hamburger buns, toilet paper, and, yes, more red Solo cups.
When your partner suggests, “Let’s rent a beach house!” or “How about the mountains?” your mind races with visions of sipping fruity cocktails and enjoying gourmet meals served poolside. Maybe you envision finally finding tranquility on a beautiful hike, breathing in fresh mountain air. You might imagine a personal chef and housekeeper taking care of everything, allowing you to relax in a spacious home rather than feeling cramped in a hotel room.
But then reality hits: that house doesn’t come with help—you are the help. All that space means more dirty laundry and dishes to manage. Instead of pampering yourself, you’re preparing meals, cleaning, and washing multiple loads of towels daily. Meanwhile, the kids and your spouse are having the time of their lives, oblivious to your growing exhaustion and resentment. It’s hard to feel like you’re on vacation when you’re busy facilitating everyone else’s fun while your own enjoyment evaporates.
Despite this, I can’t deny that I’ve had wonderful moments with my kids over the years, even if they often feel like sacrifices. Parenting can be a relentless cycle of selflessness, where our kids’ joy often comes at the expense of our own happiness. This summer, I’ll once again don a bright smile as I head to a vacation house with my family. I’ll cook, clean, laugh, and share unforgettable moments, all while they indulge in their version of fun.
However, come fall, I’ll be turning in my mom martyr card and treating myself to a genuine getaway. I’ll savor mango daiquiris while lounging on a pristine beach, ordering steak and lobster while sending out my laundry for someone else to handle. Each morning, I’ll have fresh pastries delivered to my room, indulging in a level of self-care that would make anyone envious. I’ll fill my own fun bucket to overflowing, all without a single paper plate or red Solo cup in sight.
So, who’s with me on this journey to reclaiming our vacations?
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In summary, while family vacations may often turn into more work than relaxation, it’s essential to carve out time for yourself. Embrace both the chaos and the joy, and make sure to prioritize your own well-being.
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