Lessons in Love from a 7-Year-Old

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One of the most impactful people in my life is a 7-year-old named Lily. I’ve known her since she was just a little bump in her mom’s belly. She affectionately calls me her big brother, a title I wear with pride. We’ve shared countless adventures, from trips to the zoo and ice cream outings to movie marathons. I’m the fun uncle who fills her with sweets before returning her to her parents—I’m sure they appreciate that!

Over the years, Lily has noticed that I’m often single and has taken it upon herself to help me “fix” that issue. She’s determined to be my love life advisor, and her unsolicited advice is usually way more entertaining (and insightful) than what my adult friends offer. I’ve been jotting down her wisdom since she was four, and I have to say, some folks pay good money for life coaching, but I get my best lessons from a chatty 7-year-old at the park.

Here are some of Lily’s best love tips:

1. Kid Logic: “Always say you’re sorry.”
   • Me: “What if I didn’t do anything wrong?”
   • Kid: “Hmm. You did. So just start with saying you’re sorry. Trust me!”
2. Priorities: “Focus on her instead of anything. You’re not dating your job!”
3. Common Interests: “Find someone who likes what you like, so you can enjoy them together.”
4. Relationship Insights:
   • Kid: “Are you going to marry her?!”
   • Me: “I don’t know. Should I?”
   • Kid: “No! I don’t want her as my sister! She’s mean to you. You shouldn’t love someone who is mean.”
5. Finding Love:
   • Kid: “You gotta find someone to love.”
   • Me: “And why is that?”
   • Kid: “Because everyone needs somebody! Love someone because they’re special, okay?”
6. Dating Dilemmas:
   • Kid: “How come you never have a girlfriend?!”
   • Me: “I don’t know. What do you think?”
   • Kid: “Maybe because you like Star Wars and they don’t.”
7. Girlfriend Necessity: “You need a girlfriend!”
   • Me: “Why?”
   • Kid: “Because you don’t have one, silly!”
8. Future Family:
   • Kid: “I know you aren’t ever going to get married, but if you did, I’d have a sister-in-law, right?”
   • Me: “Who said I wasn’t getting married?!”
   • Kid: “You! Answer my question!”
9. Emoji Guidance: “You should always show them to me, I’ll know.”
10. Friendship and Love:
    • Kid: “Are you dating the girl who gave me a lemon bar?”
    • Me: “You mean Sarah?”
    • Kid: “Yeah, Sarah. Are you dating her?”
    • Me: “No, just friends.”
    • Kid: “You should marry Sarah! She loves you, and you love her, and she’s nice!”

Every time I see Lily, she’s ready with more advice. She particularly loves bringing up Sarah, and while she might be a bit too eager about marriage (probably due to that lemon bar), she’s right. I often let great connections slip away because I’m afraid to express my feelings. It’s a reminder that taking risks is essential—not just in dating, but in life itself.

So, maybe it’s time to take a leap. And honestly, we could all benefit from that mindset, whether it’s about love or just living fully.

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In summary, sometimes the best advice comes from the most unexpected places, and a child’s perspective can remind us to embrace love and life without fear.