Hey friends, I want to share something that’s been weighing on my heart. I remember the day I had to face a room full of strangers, discussing something deeply personal. A kind advocate named Lisa sat with me, reassuring me that I was safe and that I just needed to speak my truth. “We believe you,” she said, and those three little words gave me the strength I needed to share my story.
Fast forward through some tough times, including grand jury proceedings and grueling cross-examinations, and I managed to stand tall because those around me believed in me. When a defense attorney tried to twist my words and tarnish my character, I held my ground. And when my abuser was finally convicted, I felt a sense of pride, knowing that I had been believed.
Now, I can’t help but think about the brave women coming forward with their own experiences regarding Roy Moore, who has been accused of abusing at least eight children. Each of these women deserves our support, yet they face harsh scrutiny. It’s disheartening to see the public dialogue around their stories; as a survivor and a CASA (court-appointed special advocate), I know that statistics show most victims tell the truth. For example, did you know that in 98% of reported child abuse cases, the victims’ statements are substantiated?
Sadly, many victims wait years or even a lifetime before they speak out. I was one of them, waiting eight years to reveal my experience. The statistics are chilling: for every 1,000 rapes reported, fewer than six perpetrators end up in jail. And shockingly, some even manage to get elected to public office.
So, what can we do?
When someone confides in you about their abuse, the only response should be, “I believe you.” It doesn’t matter who the accused is—whether it’s a close friend, a respected figure, or even a historical figure like Davy Crockett. What matters more is acknowledging the pain and trauma of abuse itself.
Let’s not add to the fear that prevents victims from sharing their stories. It could be a stranger today, but it might just as easily be someone you love tomorrow. If that were the case, wouldn’t you want the world to respond with compassion and understanding? I would hope for someone like Lisa, who would look my child in the eyes and say, “I believe you.”
To Roy Moore’s accusers: We believe you. To all the victims whose stories remain unspoken: We believe you. The world is filled with children suffering in silence, waiting to be heard. Let’s ensure that when they do find the courage to speak, they’re met with understanding rather than shame. I’ll be there to support them, and I hope you will too.
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Remember, support is key. Let’s make sure we’re the kind of people who lift others up and believe them.
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