1,181 friends. That’s quite a lot for someone who identifies as an introvert. After spending over 40 years on this planet, I’ve been on social media for a decade, reconnecting with folks from various chapters of my life. In the early days, it was all about adding friends simply because we knew them. It felt like collecting baseball cards—more friends meant more fun, right? But as social media has evolved, it’s become more than just a platform for sharing updates; it’s a space for networking, checking in at cool spots, having virtual coffee chats, and connecting over shared passions.
So, I’m not sorry I decided to unfriend you.
Historically, I’ve been the type to follow the rules and avoid confrontation, so I rarely unfriended anyone. My online presence grew as I transitioned from selling products to blogging, and I wanted to maintain as many connections as possible. If my posts bored you, I figured you could just unfriend me. Until now.
In today’s fast-paced world, there’s an overwhelming amount of content vying for our attention. Social media platforms have changed, introducing features that curate content based on our interests. Facebook groups have become a hub for finding like-minded individuals for discussions on everything from parenting to business. With these changes, I felt it was the perfect time to clean my social media slate. Like many, I wanted my feed to reflect my current interests, and that sometimes meant letting go of friends who didn’t fit that picture.
It’s not personal, it’s just practical. Everyone has limited time, and when you’re scrolling through your feed, you want to see what’s most relevant to you. For example, while I may share snapshots of my kids on a school field trip, I understand that might not pique your interest.
Going through my friend list can be overwhelming. I have connections from different stages of my life, and while I enjoy keeping up with them, some bring up feelings I’d rather avoid. Maybe they’re in jobs I used to have, and watching them thrive can sting a little. That’s on me, not them. So, I’ve made the choice to unfriend, and honestly? I’m okay with it.
After ten years of navigating social media, streamlining who I connect with and what I see is a necessary step. Recently, I bumped into an old Facebook friend at the grocery store. She spotted me and walked right past. If we’re friends online, shouldn’t we acknowledge each other in real life? Maybe it’s time to reassess my friend list once more.
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In summary, unfriending isn’t a personal attack; it’s about curating a space that reflects who you are today.
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