In a classic case of online mansplaining, a man decided to share his unsolicited opinion on childbirth, insisting that mothers do not require epidurals. This unsolicited advice came from a self-proclaimed expert who, despite never experiencing labor, presumed to dictate how women should manage pain during childbirth.
Social media commentator, Lily Harper, is known for calling out ridiculous comments on forums and often sheds light on the absurdity of such takes. Recently, she highlighted a particularly cringeworthy statement from a man who boldly claimed, “Women don’t need epidurals at all. They never have, thanks to modern medicine.” Seriously, dude? Just because you’ve witnessed two births doesn’t give you the right to tell women how to endure one of the most painful experiences of their lives.
Imagine if we applied the same logic to men in sports. Why not just eliminate protective cups in male-dominated sports? After all, they don’t “need” them, right? But what do I know—I’m just a woman who has never had testicles.
The responses to Harper’s tweet were nothing short of hilarious.
But let’s get real: who is this guy to say what women need during labor? Shaming anyone for their pain management choices is not only inconsiderate, but it’s particularly insensitive coming from someone who has never been in those shoes.
I, myself, was only four centimeters into excruciating back labor when my doctor suggested an epidural. Initially hesitant, I quickly changed my mind when he told me, “There are no awards for enduring pain.” Within minutes, I was receiving my dose of relief, and I have zero regrets about that decision.
The man’s jab at “modern medicine” is laughable. I can only assume he forgoes antibiotics and pain relief in favor of more archaic remedies, like leeches and herbal poultices from a bygone era.
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In summary, it’s essential to respect women’s choices regarding childbirth and to recognize that every experience is unique. Mansplaining in these situations is not only unnecessary but also deeply unhelpful.
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