Every morning, I see a father walking his 8-year-old son to school. A block from the elementary school, he holds his son’s hand while puffing on a cigarette. It’s a daily sight that makes me want to stop the car and ask him to put his cigarette down until after drop-off. His son has no choice but to be walked to school, and the children passing by in cars or buses see this father casually smoking, unaware of the message it sends.
Let’s be clear: smoking doesn’t define you as a bad person or parent. Many people smoke and find it tough to quit. It’s a personal choice, and everyone has the right to make their own decisions. However, smoking around children—or anyone who doesn’t want to breathe in secondhand smoke—isn’t acceptable.
Imagine enjoying a drink at the end of the day; would you offer a sip to your child? Of course not. Or if you indulge in some weed gummies, would you share them with the neighborhood kids? Absolutely not. That’s because it’s dangerous and irresponsible. The same applies to smoking in close proximity to those inhaling the same air. Secondhand smoke poses health risks for both kids and adults, while third-hand smoke—residual nicotine and chemicals lingering on surfaces—can also be harmful.
You would assume common sense dictates that smoking near grocery stores, hospitals, or anywhere children might be is inappropriate. Yet, some folks haven’t gotten that message. Beyond the health concerns, an article in The Toronto Star points out that when children see adults smoking, it normalizes the behavior. We can educate our kids about the dangers, but seeing adults engage in risky activities can undermine those lessons.
Yes, it’s your right to smoke, but please be considerate. There are designated smoking areas meant for this purpose, often located away from foot traffic. I’ve seen them behind grocery stores and car dealerships. Use them. If you must smoke, step away from children and non-smokers to avoid exposing them to your habit.
As we strive to raise informed children who understand the dangers of smoking while protecting their health, it’s crucial to remember this: if you choose to smoke near us, don’t be surprised if a parent politely asks you to move along. For more information on creating a healthy environment for children, check out this resource on pregnancy and home insemination at Healthline. And if you’re curious about home insemination kits, you can learn more here.
In summary, while smoking is a personal choice, being mindful of where and when you do it is essential, especially around children. We’re all trying to protect the next generation from unnecessary health risks, so let’s work together to create a safer environment.

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