Parenting
By: Emma Johnson
Updated: Dec. 30, 2019
Originally Published: Feb. 1, 2018
There’s no denying it: orgasms are amazing. A truly satisfying climax can transport you to an entirely different realm—a place you never want to leave. Even if it’s not an earth-shattering experience, it still feels incredible.
We all yearn for pleasure, whether we consciously recognize it or not. There have been moments when my body craved release, and I wasn’t even aware I was in the mood for intimacy. (Please tell me I’m not alone in this!) If you’ve never experienced the thrill of multiple orgasms and have always longed for that delightful sensation coursing through you repeatedly, there are ways to make it happen. It’s not selfish to want more pleasure; after all, who wouldn’t want a second round—or maybe even a third?
There’s absolutely no shame in asking for more of something wonderful. As women—whether as mothers or busy professionals—it’s our right to indulge in pleasure multiple times during those passionate encounters.
Having just one orgasm is already beneficial for both mind and body: they help reduce food cravings, release oxytocin, improve sleep, and alleviate menstrual cramps. I’ve noticed that after a great climax, my skin even glows. Just think about the benefits of having several orgasms! If I can schedule a few exhilarating sessions each month, I might just stay looking youthful forever—and that’s a compelling reason to explore.
Let’s dive into how we can enjoy those extra delights during intimate moments because, let’s be honest, orgasms are like chips—too irresistible to stop at just one.
I recently came across an article on Gurl.com that I read multiple times. It struck me that the key to achieving multiple orgasms often starts with your mindset. Visualizing yourself in a state of pleasure and setting clear intentions can be transformative. Perhaps creating a vision board dedicated to your multiple O goals might be a fun idea! Envision yourself and your partner taking it slow, experimenting with various techniques. Orgasms can be achieved through diverse forms of stimulation—like kissing, nipple play, or even anal play. Once, I even experienced one from a gentle rub on the back of my knee; it was exhilarating and left me craving more. So why not mix things up and aim for different types of orgasms at once? Maybe I’m being a tad ambitious, but why not go for it? If it’s possible, we should definitely embrace it.
Another crucial piece of advice is to avoid diving straight in. Quickies are thrilling and can be delightful surprises, whether it’s a spontaneous afternoon rendezvous or waking up in the mood for a passionate session. But when time is on your side, savor it. Teasing can heighten excitement, making you want more as the anticipation builds. Plus, having snacks nearby is a great idea—you’ll need the energy! Eating and intimacy can create the best experiences.
Incorporating sex toys is another fabulous way to enhance pleasure. I own an incredible vibrator that has helped me achieve multiple orgasms in under 15 minutes—something no partner has ever done for me. I’m not about to give up my time with this little magic wand anytime soon, and if someone wants to join in, even better! Sex toys can amplify pleasure for both partners, especially if one is feeling a bit worn out and prefers to sit back and enjoy the show.
Communication is vital when it comes to intimacy, especially if you’re aiming for multiple climaxes. If your partner is expending energy in ways that aren’t quite hitting the mark, suggest alternatives. This can be done playfully—by guiding their hands, changing positions, or expressing what excites you. There’s no reason to endure discomfort or monotony; your partner doesn’t want that either, so don’t hold back. You wouldn’t hesitate to ask for extra toppings on your frozen yogurt, right?
To keep the party going, consider avoiding direct clitoral stimulation after your first (or second) climax. Your clit is incredibly sensitive post-orgasm, and excessive touching can be overwhelming. Instead, if you tuck your clitoris away between your labia (sometimes humorously referred to as a clit sandwich), gentle rubbing can lead to another ecstatic release.
Lastly, don’t underestimate the power of a good lubricant. Seriously, if you haven’t jumped on the lube bandwagon yet, order some right away! Whether you’re with a partner or using a toy, lube enhances comfort, making it more likely that you’ll reach climax—perhaps even multiple ones. Just be cautious, as not all lubes are created equal. For example, oil-based lubes like coconut oil aren’t compatible with condoms. My personal favorite is Romp by Lark Naturals—it’s slippery, made from natural ingredients, and safe for use with all types of condoms. Plus, it won’t stain your sheets!
So, carve out time to explore the world of multiple orgasms with your partner or by yourself. The more you practice, the easier it becomes. What are you waiting for?
Summary:
Embracing pleasure and exploring the potential for multiple orgasms is a journey that begins in the mind and can be enhanced through communication, experimentation, and the use of sex toys and lubricants. By taking the time to explore and connect, both solo and with a partner, you can enjoy a more fulfilling intimate life.
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