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The Significance of Girls’ Getaways
by Sarah Connors
Updated: Feb. 6, 2023
Originally Published: Feb. 3, 2023
Friendship is truly invaluable. I believe I’m not alone when I say, “MY FRIENDS ARE AMAZING!” I’m fortunate to still have friends from every chapter of my life—elementary school, high school, college, my single days (which felt just like something out of a romantic comedy), through my career, and now as a parent. Each of these women has been a source of strength and joy, especially throughout my battle with cancer at 42, and during every high and low I’ve faced.
Scheduling a dinner or drink with friends often feels like trying to organize a diplomatic summit. Now, planning a girls’ weekend? That’s a whole different level of difficulty. After numerous texts and emails, we finally managed to agree on a date and a venue that worked for four busy moms juggling nine kids. It’s amazing what we can achieve!
I’ve been blessed to have these particular friends in my life for nearly 30 years—30 years!! The best part about these friendships is that we can simply hang out doing nothing and still create some of our most cherished memories. This past weekend was no exception; we spent hours in our hotel room, laughing and reminiscing about our wild adventures as kids, far surpassing any fancy dinner we could have had. Who needs a gym when laughter can give you abs sore from giggling?
Life is unpredictable, and we never know who will enter our lives and how. Sometimes, friendships blossom simply because you end up in the same school, or you find yourself in the same college dorm, or you meet during a challenging period where it feels like no one else understands your situation—be it being single when everyone else seems to be coupled up or navigating the ups and downs of motherhood.
These connections often feel destined, as if the universe conspired to bring you together—whether at a young age or during significant moments in your life. We may not grasp the importance of these relationships right away, but they are often pivotal.
We consciously choose which friends to keep close, based on how they enrich our lives after those seemingly random encounters. These are the friends who can make you laugh until you cry or know just how to lift you when you’re feeling down. They stand by you, through thick and thin.
When we forge friendships, especially in childhood, we don’t foresee that the hands we once held to skip across the playground will be the same ones we clasp during our parents’ funerals. We can’t imagine that the hugs we shared during moments of exclusion will be the same ones that comfort us after a loss. And the friends who reassured us after our first heartbreak will also be the ones we lean on when we receive both good and bad news.
As we build these relationships at various stages of our lives—at 12, 22, 32, or even 42—we can’t predict the challenges and joys that lie ahead. We don’t know what kind of friends we’ll need or what life will throw our way. But we do know that we’ll need the support of our girlfriends to navigate everything from adolescence (both ours and our kids’) to career pressures, the joys and struggles of motherhood, and the complexities of marriage.
After my diagnosis, I never doubted the strength of my friendship circle; however, it’s remarkable how a significant life event can reaffirm what you’ve always known. Regardless of whether you have one close friend or a whole group, it’s essential to have those who enhance your life just by being present. They’re the ones with whom you create memories that still make you smile—sometimes even cringe—at the thought.
And really, what’s a little embarrassment among best friends?
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Summary:
Girls’ weekends are essential for nurturing lifelong friendships, providing laughter, comfort, and support through life’s ups and downs. They remind us of the strength of our connections and how vital friends are in navigating the complexities of life. Cherish these moments, as they form the foundation for enduring relationships that can withstand the test of time.
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