In a previous life, I was an educator. For many years, I wore professional attire and spent my days introducing students to Shakespeare, sentence structure, and the nuances of metaphors versus similes. After school, I’d return home to prepare lessons, grade assignments, and repeat the cycle the next day.
I understand what it’s like to stand in front of a classroom filled with diverse students, each with their own set of needs. Each child brings different learning styles, personalities, and home environments that I often knew little about. I’ve witnessed the relentless cycle of budget cuts that seem never-ending, teaching in schools that lacked basic resources—no paper, no heating, no air conditioning, and sometimes, no administrative support.
Now, however, I’m on the other side of the equation as a parent during parent-teacher conferences, advocating for my son. I recognize that my requests may add extra work and stress to your day. I truly empathize. But just like many of your students, my gifted son possesses special needs.
What Does That Entail?
It means he is far ahead of his peers. He was reading by the age of 2 ½, tackling algebra in kindergarten, and devoured the entire Harry Potter series by the end of first grade. I’m not boasting; these are just the facts, and they are daunting.
While I sympathize with the challenges educators face, I am also acutely aware of the fate that can befall gifted children like my son. Throughout my teaching career, I encountered brilliant students who could analyze themes and motifs well beyond their classmates but often disengaged completely. They would put their heads down on their desks, rarely submit work, and in some cases, fail to graduate.
These were some of the brightest minds in the room, yet no one intervened early on to guide them. No one told these boys, “Your brain is unique, and that’s not just okay; it’s remarkable. I won’t let you squander your potential or lose your passion.”
My Concerns as a Parent
I worry about my son. Since preschool, he has often found himself bored in school. I don’t expect teachers to eliminate every ounce of boredom—after all, we all face it at times. I’m often bored when he goes on about Minecraft for what feels like hours, so learning to cope with boredom is a life skill. However, there’s a delicate balance between “boredom” and “apathy.” As his mother, I am determined to catch him before he drifts into the latter.
An article titled “The Special Needs of Gifted Children” highlights that this is a common issue for gifted kids. The article states, “When children aren’t challenged, they can’t grow. Boredom can lead to restlessness. If this becomes routine, children may lose hope that school will ever be a place for exploring their interests or trying new things. When that hope fades, they may lose the motivation to engage in classroom activities and may even dread attending school.”
Advocating for My Son
So, what does this mean for us? It means I advocate fiercely. I make it a point to visit the classroom, observe his interactions, and stay informed about his curriculum. At home, I dedicate time to research projects, trips to the library, and engaging activities. I drive him to science camps and math clubs, and work to connect him with friends who share his interests.
Yet, we parents of gifted children need your assistance, educators. The National Association for Gifted Children emphasizes that “parents, educators, and the community must support all children in reaching their potential.” They stress the importance of nurturing the intellectual, social, emotional, and physical development of gifted kids.
Teaching gifted children often requires unique strategies like acceleration, flexible grouping, and specialized programs. We have explored various educational approaches to see what best fits my son, his teacher, and his classmates. He has had an Individualized Education Program (IEP), participated in tailored reading and math programs, enjoyed additional computer time, and tackled advanced projects. As the years progress, we will continue to collaborate to ensure my child thrives.
A Day in the Life
My son isn’t homeschooled or skipping grades. He rides the bus every morning to attend third grade at our local public school, where he enjoys hot lunches (corn dogs are his favorite), plays Four Square during recess, and participates in P.E. He wears comfy sweatpants and hoodies like his classmates and loves video games. He’s simply gifted. So if he’s in your class, you’ll get to know me too—because that’s my role as his mom.
Further Resources
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Conclusion
In summary, being a parent of a gifted child involves navigating unique challenges and advocating for their needs. It’s essential for educators and parents to work together to ensure these children remain engaged and motivated in their learning journey.
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