Navigating the challenges of new parenthood can be overwhelming for both moms and dads. To shed some light on the dads’ perspective, we asked them what they wish their partners understood. Here are their thoughts:
1. They Crave Your Attention
“After our baby arrived, I tried to help with everything my partner needed. While I don’t mind, I really appreciate a hug or a ‘great job’ every now and then to feel recognized,” shared Mike D. “I also yearned for some one-on-one time with my wife, even if it was just a quick movie date or a day away together. It felt like we were so focused on the kids that we lost sight of each other for a bit.” — Brian K.
2. They Admire You Deeply
“After the birth of our second child, I was completely in awe of my partner’s strength and capabilities. I may not fully grasp everything she goes through, but I truly admire her,” mentioned Tom R. “Seeing her handle everything makes me realize how much harder it is for her. It motivates me to do better every day.” — Jake L.
3. They Need Their Own Breaks
“When we learned about baby number two, I jokingly told my partner I needed a ‘man cave’ for some quiet time,” recalled Chris J. “Sometimes, I just want to share my workday without being bombarded with baby talk the moment I walk in. I want to share my day too, as that matters to me,” added Nick T.
4. Perfection Isn’t Necessary
“I often tell my partner that we don’t need to give the baby a bath every single night. Sometimes, I just want to relax together instead,” said Oliver W. “Honestly, I often fake it when it comes to parenting, but at least I’m trying!” he chuckled.
5. They Find You Even More Attractive
“Honestly, I think my partner is incredibly sexy, even if she feels insecure about her post-baby body,” said Alex G. “Seeing her juggle parenting, work, and everything else is such a turn-on. It’s amazing!” — Ryan H.
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In summary, understanding each other’s needs and feelings can strengthen the bond between parents. Dads wish their partners knew how much they value attention, admiration, and a break from the routine, as well as the importance of enjoying imperfection and the beauty they see in their partners.
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