In a recent social interaction, I found it necessary to address a common misconception regarding playdates. Following a delightful gathering at my residence, I felt compelled to clarify my intentions and preferences surrounding these events.
Dear Lisa,
I sincerely appreciate you bringing your little one over for the playdate today. My son had a fantastic time with your daughter, and he’s eager for their next encounter outside of school. However, I wanted to take a moment to discuss an aspect of our time together that has been on my mind since you left.
When I extended the invitation for a playdate, I anticipated that our children would engage in their own activities while we enjoyed some adult conversation in another room. It’s not that I don’t cherish my time with my child; rather, I relish the opportunity to catch a break and converse about matters beyond the daily grind of parenting.
I noticed you take a very active role in supervising the play, which is admirable, but I lean more towards a “let them figure it out” philosophy. With the myriad of responsibilities we juggle—feeding, clothing, and transporting our children—do we really need to supervise them constantly? Isn’t that what devices like iPads and Xboxes are for? In fact, I had Netflix ready just in case they needed a diversion from the outdoor play.
Your baking skills were impressive, and I must commend you on the delightful carrot cake you brought. I had planned on throwing some popcorn in a bowl and letting the kids fend for themselves, so your thoughtful gesture was a lovely surprise.
Additionally, I appreciated your creative approach to transforming my backyard into an archeological dig. It seemed to engage the kids, and I hope you didn’t mind that I took a few moments to enjoy some “me” time while I Snapchatted their fun from the picnic table.
Looking ahead, I have several ideas for our next playdate. Perhaps we could relax in the kitchen, chatting about the latest happenings in our lives or indulge in a glass of wine while discussing our favorite reality shows. The Real Housewives are a constant source of entertainment—definitely friends I wish I could meet!
You strike me as a fantastic mom, and I envision our friendship blossoming beyond playdates—think happy hours, girls’ weekends, and double date nights with our partners. I would love to continue this connection, so let’s aim to carve out some adult time while our kids entertain themselves in another room.
If you’re up for hosting the next playdate at your place, I can bring the wine.
Talk soon!
In summary, navigating the expectations of playdates can sometimes lead to misunderstandings. It’s essential for parents to communicate their preferences clearly to foster a supportive and enjoyable environment for both children and adults. For those considering their options for family planning, resources like the at-home insemination kits from Make a Mom can provide helpful guidance. Additionally, Women’s Health offers invaluable information on pregnancy and home insemination.
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