Lifestyle
Updated: April 19, 2018
Anxiety can often manifest itself as anger, and it’s a struggle that many face. I find myself clenching my jaw and tightening my fists, overwhelmed by emotions that seem to burst out of nowhere. This response can stem from a variety of triggers, whether it’s a thoughtless comment from a friend about my outfit choices, a judgment from my family about my relationship status, or even a memory of past friendships that left me feeling hurt.
Sometimes it’s the irritation I feel towards myself for poor choices, like indulging in too much pizza and sweets, or the lingering pain from a past relationship where trust was a constant concern. It’s moments like these that reveal my anxiety, leading to outbursts that leave me feeling guilty afterward.
One vivid instance of this occurred when my friend, Jamie, was late to the airport, causing us to rush for our flight. I lost my temper and yelled at her on the plane, prompting a flight attendant to step in. I was mortified and embarrassed, and despite having a wonderful vacation, the memory still haunts me.
If you find yourself in a similar situation, my advice is to practice “focusing.” Keeping your mind engaged in a positive activity is crucial. While mindfulness techniques may not suit everyone, I find solace in writing about moments of anger. By framing these experiences as stories and analyzing the triggers, I gain a new perspective that helps me process my emotions more constructively.
During conversations that could potentially lead to an outburst, I try to excuse myself momentarily or count to ten before responding. Though I still occasionally face moments of regret, I have noticed improvement over time. On particularly challenging days, I aim to get to bed early, hoping to wake up refreshed and ready to combat those invasive thoughts.
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In summary, while anxiety can trigger anger in uncontrollable ways, finding strategies to address these emotions and understanding their roots can help mitigate the effects.
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