31 Essential Insights for My Middle-School Son

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Dear Elijah,

As you embark on your middle school journey, I want to share some important lessons that may guide you along the way:

1. Not everyone will understand you, and that’s okay. Be patient; your true friends will come.
2. Regardless of your athletic abilities, determination will set you apart.
3. Remember, every time you run, you have a guardian angel watching over you.
4. Friendships aren’t about numbers; the quality ones are the ones that last a lifetime.
5. Personal hygiene matters – always wear deodorant.
6. It’s perfectly acceptable for girls to just be friends; you’re still young for romance. The right ones will appreciate your shyness.
7. Humility is challenging but vital.
8. Own your strengths with confidence; there’s nothing wrong with embracing what you’re good at.
9. Face-to-face conversations are more meaningful than texting.
10. Teenagers can be strange, and soon you’ll be one too. Embrace it; it will pass.
11. If you can’t hear someone, politely ask them to speak up.
12. Using “sir” or “ma’am” when addressing adults shows respect; it’s a unique trait of military kids. Always stand quietly during the National Anthem, face the flag, and remove your hat.
13. Don’t forget to brush your teeth!
14. Mixing patterns like plaids and stripes is okay—just wear it with confidence.
15. Bed-head can be a look, but it’s not necessarily a good one!
16. If you see someone eating alone, make an effort to sit with them.
17. Making eye contact will become easier with practice.
18. Don’t be afraid to dance!
19. Laughing at yourself is charming, but avoid being overly self-critical.
20. Take ownership of your mistakes; they are part of learning and growing.
21. Always be ready to forgive.
22. A simple pat on the back can mean a lot to a teammate.
23. Chew your food with your mouth closed, and remember to use a napkin—ketchup can get messy!
24. Your PE clothes need to be washed more frequently; no one likes the smell of old gym clothes.
25. Trust that a wonderful plan is in place for your life.
26. Be your authentic self—trying to fit in is not cool. Remember, those who stand out often change the world.
27. Kindness is a valuable quality.
28. Hold doors open for others, and remember to say please and thank you. Using “you’re welcome” instead of “no problem” shows that helping others is a privilege. Aim for a firm handshake, but don’t make it too strong or weak.
29. Keep prayer in your life.
30. When you’re feeling down, lift your gaze upwards.
31. Engage in activities like reading, drawing, listening to music, and playing outside. Too much device time can be boring—look up, unplug, and enjoy the moment.

In conclusion, my dear Elijah, you are perfectly unique in your imperfections. You will make mistakes and have regrets, but you will also rise above them. We are here to support and love you every step of the way. I hope you’ll look back on these years and recognize the greatness within yourself.

Love,
Mom

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Summary

This letter provides essential advice for a middle-school son, emphasizing personal growth, respect, kindness, and the importance of true friendships. It encourages him to embrace his individuality and navigate challenges with confidence.