The Hidden Benefits of Being Single Again

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Recently, I found myself at a work event when a young girl approached me with a colorful box filled with handmade jewelry. She explained that she was selling her beaded pieces to help her mother with a phone bill. Feeling generous and in a good mood, I picked out a bracelet that caught my eye and told her to keep the change.

This blue knotted bracelet has since become a constant companion on my wrist, emblazoned with one powerful word: FREE. I chose it to remind myself that I am no longer accountable to anyone. After years of being in a relationship, this symbol is helping me shake off old habits and shift my mindset. It’s a refreshing sight every morning.

Let’s be honest, the divorce process can be tough. My life has certainly become more complicated as I navigate parenting alone. However, there are undeniable advantages to being single. Here are 21 reasons I’m embracing my independence:

1. I’m in Control: During my marriage, I often deferred to my ex-husband’s way of doing things. Now, I make all the decisions—big or small.
2. Food Freedom: I can eat whatever I want, whenever I want, without any disapproving glances. Midnight ice cream? Yes, please!
3. Financial Independence: I’m the only one spending my hard-earned money. I control the budget and enjoy the peace of mind that comes with it.
4. Less Worry: I no longer stay up late wondering when he’ll come home. I miss adult conversation sometimes, but I’m not burdened by resentment.
5. Clean Space: With no one else around, I can keep my house clutter-free. I love the organization and tranquility that comes with it.
6. My Own Plans: My free time is just that—mine. I no longer have to accommodate anyone else’s schedule.
7. No More Approval Seeking: I spent years trying to please someone else, often feeling inadequate. Now, my own opinion is what matters.
8. Dress for Me: I choose my own clothes without anyone else’s input, even if my budget is tight.
9. No Criticism: When I make mistakes, I own them without someone else pointing out my flaws.
10. Personal Space: I have more room in my home, my closet, and my bed. I genuinely appreciate the solitude.
11. TV Time: After the kids are asleep, the remote is mine!
12. Holiday Flexibility: I can choose how to spend holidays—whether with my family or enjoying some well-deserved alone time.
13. Punctuality: I value my time and don’t wait for anyone anymore.
14. Love is Possible: The world of dating is open to me again. Who knows what the future holds?
15. Bedtime is Mine: I love crashing as soon as the kids are in bed without any distractions.
16. Less Stress: Being unattached is simply less complicated.
17. My Opinions Matter: I can express myself freely without the fear of conflict.
18. Creative Freedom: I’m rediscovering my passions, whether it’s writing, painting, or dreaming big.
19. No More Defending: I no longer have to make excuses for someone else’s behavior.
20. Driving My Own Path: I’m in control of my journey—no more white-knuckle rides in the passenger seat!
21. Future Possibilities: I don’t regret my past; it brought some amazing children into my life. They are my joy, and I look forward to what comes next.

For too long, I compromised, and in the process, I lost sight of myself. But now, post-divorce, I revel in my freedom, and I wear that bracelet as a constant reminder of my journey.

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In summary, while divorce can be challenging, it also opens the door to newfound independence and opportunities. Embracing this chapter of life has made me realize just how much I value my freedom.