To the author of yet another open letter criticizing parents for allowing their children to use iPads at restaurants:
I truly wonder why these letters keep cropping up on various platforms. It’s not as if this has not been addressed numerous times before, and frankly, the arguments made are often repetitive and uninspired. Instead of reiterating the same tired points, I simply want to urge you to focus on your own affairs and perhaps reconsider your approach.
Your letter was not a genuine effort to enlighten parents or to help them recognize their shortcomings. Rather, it appears to serve as a self-congratulatory manifesto, showcasing your supposed superiority as a mother while disparaging others. Bravo for managing to pry your fingers from your pearls just long enough to type some judgmental remarks.
Now, let’s address your list of reasons why parents shouldn’t rely on modern technology for a moment of peace in a restaurant booth.
“Your children want your attention.”
Let’s be honest: if given the option, my kids would likely trade me for a tablet with endless data in a heartbeat. Yes, they enjoy my company, but they’re equally enthralled by streaming their favorite shows. I’m all for watching them leap off the jungle gym repeatedly, but I also cherish the occasional adult conversation with my partner that doesn’t involve mediating sibling disputes. And I do this without guilt.
“You’re going to lose their attention.”
Just because our kids may tune us out during their teenage years doesn’t mean we need to give them our undivided attention during their formative years. If we hover incessantly, they will likely grow to resent us during adolescence. Healthy relationships require balance.
“You’re failing to teach the art of conversation.”
Your brief observation of that family across the restaurant doesn’t capture the full scope of their interactions. It’s entirely possible they engage in meaningful conversations at home during meals. Regardless of their dining habits, it remains none of your business.
“You’re setting terrible examples.”
This assertion is misguided. Suggesting that letting kids use iPads leads to a poor parent-child relationship is unfair. A true terrible example would be being condescending and instilling in your children the belief that they are inherently superior to others.
“It’s annoying to patrons.”
You know what else can be bothersome? Children. They can be loud, messy, and disruptive. And while you rant about iPads, many parents face criticism simply for taking their kids out in public. Your tone, which implies that parents haven’t considered the merits of device-free meals, is patronizing and unhelpful.
When I see a family enjoying dinner with their kids occupied by a show, I applaud them for taking a moment for themselves. Many families don’t have the luxury of hiring a sitter, so if handing a child an iPad is the worst thing a stranger can criticize, that family is likely doing just fine. Cheers to you, parents!
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In summary, let’s focus on supporting one another rather than casting judgment. The way families choose to manage their time and technology is a personal decision, and it’s essential to respect that.
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