I’ve heard some moms insist that a solo trip to Target doesn’t count as “me” time, but I’m here to tell you they’re missing out. Sure, lounging at a spa or sipping wine in Paris sounds dreamy, but I’d take my Target runs any day. Not because my life is so dull that I can’t think of anything better to do, but because those shopping trips bring me genuine joy. The moment I step through those doors, it’s like a wave of calm washes over me, especially when I catch a whiff of popcorn and coffee.
There’s something so freeing about wandering the aisles alone, without little voices asking for toys or snacks. I can stand in peace, scrolling through my phone and debating whether to indulge in Double Stuf Oreos or Doritos (because, you know, PMS). And honestly? I usually grab both because, as the mom, I call the shots. It feels good to treat myself.
When I’m alone, I don’t need to worry about my kids getting distracted by toys or causing a scene. It’s incredible how much clearer I can think without hearing, “Mom, can we get this slime?” or “Why do you have a big crack in your boobs?” while they drum on the mirrors. This is definitely “me” time.
My First Stop: Coffee
My first stop? The coffee section, of course. I might accidentally spill a little when I reach the home goods aisle, but I’m living in the moment, sipping my drink unapologetically. I deserve it! Plus, there’s no kid around to accidentally knock it over, so I go all out and get the largest size. It’s bliss!
Clothing Section Realities
As I meander through the clothing section, telling myself I’ll just look, I can’t resist trying on a few pairs of jeans. But then I step into the dressing room, and the harsh lighting hits me like a ton of bricks. Seriously, who designed this lighting? These jeans are clearly made for someone with a much smaller body type. Ugh, talk about a wake-up call!
Beauty Potions Galore
But my mood lifts as I enter the cosmetics section. I grab lotions, scrubs, and all sorts of beauty potions that promise to work miracles. Even if I know they probably won’t, I’m a sucker for fancy packaging and lofty claims.
Food and Guilt-Free Snacking
When you’re a mom shopping alone at Target, you can stroll right past the toy aisle and head straight for the food. After all that dressing room drama, I’m starving! Whatever I grab, I can enjoy guilt-free. Leaning over my cart, I munch on some organic snacks made with cane sugar and coconut oil. Yum!
Home Section Dreams
Then I hit the home section, and that’s where I really get carried away. I spot some chic picture frames and dream about how I need a new throw pillow. Nate Berkus and Joanna Gaines would approve of my choices! As my cart fills up with essentials and a few guilty pleasures, I feel rejuvenated. Yes, this is absolutely “me” time. I’ve had a chance to sip coffee solo, ponder life in the dressing room, and treat myself to a few new items for my home.
Sometimes, all it takes for a mom to feel alive is a trip to Target. I know you get it!
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To sum it up, a trip to Target isn’t just shopping; it’s vital “me” time that refreshes my spirit and makes me feel alive.
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