In a world that feels overwhelming, a group of moms decided to come together in a field to let out their frustrations. If you’ve been a mom during the pandemic and don’t relate to this, you might just be winning at life. For those of us who are feeling the weight of it all, gathering in a chilly field to scream seems like just the right kind of therapy.
Lily Thompson, a mental health counselor and yoga instructor, kicked off this unique event. One January evening, she invited local moms to join her at Riverside Park, just outside of Denver, for a collective scream session. After two years of the pandemic pushing already weary moms into a frenzy, it turns out that a good scream might be exactly what the doctor ordered.
“I wanted to help them understand that beneath anger lies a mix of emotions—sadness, anxiety, fear, and even resentment,” Lily shared with friends. “Many moms felt isolated and were struggling to cope.” After sharing this idea last year, the response was overwhelmingly positive. Their first event took place in March 2021, despite the frigid temperatures. “We just screamed at the top of our lungs and then shared hugs. It was incredibly healing,” she recalled.
The Process
The process has some structure. Lily leads the moms through five rounds of screaming: starting with a regular scream, then moving to some colorful language, and finally a “free for all” where participants can unleash whatever they need to express. Honestly, it’s very relatable—who hasn’t screamed into a pillow in the privacy of their own room?
While it might sound funny to picture a group of women letting it all out in the dark, the reality of how we got here is sobering. Over 1.8 million women have left the workforce during the pandemic to handle family responsibilities and remote learning. Add in the chaos of trying to maintain a job, navigating constant change, and managing stressors like closed daycares and financial worries, and it’s clear we’re at a breaking point. We’re not just tired; we’re exhausted.
A Safe Space
For Lily, this event is about creating a safe space for women to express their feelings and connect with others who are experiencing the same struggles. “I hope this gives people permission to let it out,” she said. “Find a safe spot, grab a friend, and just scream.”
Resources for Moms
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In summary, the gathering of moms in a field to scream is not just a quirky event; it’s a reflection of the collective struggle many are facing. Let it out, connect with others, and remember that you’re not alone in this journey.
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